Time to move on...

So to the end of the decade. A decade that saw the wonderful birth of a child and the sad loss of a father. One with personal highs and lows, just like everyone else I guess. 

Professionally it’s been a decade of unimaginable highs and the lowest lows I could ever have imagined. Promotion to the Premier League following 3 red cards on debut at Southampton seems so long ago now. Progression to the FIFA International list followed and the opportunity to represent my country on the international stage, the highest achievement any referee can receive. A Community Shield between Arsenal and Chelsea at a full Wembley, a Championship Play Off Final with the added spice of a Yorkshire derby between Sheffield Wednesday and Hull City, 4th Official on the FA Cup Final, refereed the FA Youth Cup Final...in fact on the pitch it was a pretty successful decade on the whole. Today I sit and look at the medals and the footballs from those games in my living room and ask myself “where did it all go wrong?” The dream of not just being Fourth Official on the FA Cup Final, to lead my own team out at Wembley and achieve a lifetime ambition is one that was so close but will now only ever be a what could have been. It’s hard to accept and it has been a struggle to come to terms with that and many other things for 18 months now. 

As the decade ends, I feel it’s time to let the past go now. Time to speak about what happened over the last 18 months that led me to reach the darkest places I’ve ever been to and places that I hope I never return to going forward. 

I fully understand that there will be parts of what I write here that do not show me in the best light. Parts that I regret, that I should not have done and that I have always accepted responsibility for and apologised for. 
When you read this I would like for you to ask yourself honestly just one question before making judgement of me...

‘Have I ever done that!’ 

I’m sure some may say no. I’m also certain that 95%+ will say actually yes I probably have in some closed WhatsApp group or chat with close trusted friends. Please bear this point in mind. It’s not an attempt to excuse anything I say later, it’s an attempt to explain and hopefully put things into the context I feel they deserve to be in. 

It was reported when I left the Premier League in August 2018 that i had relocated for personal reasons. True to a degree. The personal reasons however were never confirmed. 
The Guardian wrote a piece saying I had left and then at the end, quite randomly, stated that it may have something to do with a video I had posted on social media. This surprised me somewhat. Premier League referees are not allowed a social media account. No Twitter, no Facebook...so the idea of me posting on social media wasn’t even possible. Even so...Twitter did what Twitter does...at the possibility of a scandal it goes into meltdown and everyone becomes a detective. Rumours began to appear on Twitter that the reason I left is because I had been filmed having sex with a dog. I have to say I found this hilarious to begin with that people would somehow arrive at that conclusion. The fact was somebody posted that I’m a ‘dog botherer’ in relation to me being a Huddersfield Town fan (the Terriers) and so the rumour began. The more the day went on the less funny it became. Suddenly people were taking this seriously and now copying the story to the police on twitter saying I should be investigated. Others stated they had seen the video themselves and that I was disgusting and should be arrested. People have no idea the reputational damage something like that can do, never mind the mental issues it can cause. Even at Headingley while watching Yorkshire v Notts in a T20 I was verbally abused in the stands which very nearly ended in a fight. 
Whilst I didn’t have my own social media page at the time, I was reading threats against me, very serious threats, from animal rights people who were trying to find out my address. The evening ended up with police protection for me due to these threats being taken very seriously. The story trended worldwide that evening and since that day I have received abuse regarding what is ultimately a ridiculous story. 

Days later a newspaper, The Sun, the bearer of all truths, made claims of an exclusive. They claimed I had been sacked by PGMOL for posting a video on Snapchat of me bullying a disabled person. Whilst I didn’t have a social media account, I do have Snapchat. Snapchat is something I can control and never put things on my story for all to see. I can choose who I send anything to as I’m sure you’re aware and I only had close friends and family on there. This did not constitute a social media account regarding my employment. 

For the next few months I was destroyed in the media and on social media. I chose not to comment on the stories which would ultimately give the tabloids what they wanted, the exclusive. What I experienced over the next few months was how devastating the British press can be and just how easily they are prepared to make up lies. For example, it was reported that I had split with my wife for my new Norwegian ‘blonde bombshell’ who was a former singer in a band called the Wizards of Oslo. She had tried to make it big on YouTube but had failed according to the paper. The truth? She was never in a band. She has never posted a single video of herself singing anything on YouTube...she’s a nurse on the infectious medicine ward at Ullevål Hospital in Oslo. I had split with my ex partner around 20 months prior to this story being published. The level of fake news and lies that they were prepared to go to was astounding. 

So what is the truth?

The truth is that part of that story produced by the media is true. I’m not proud of myself for this next bit and I have to live with this for the rest of my life. It destroyed my career, my reputation and caused immeasurable damage to my family life that I won’t go into. 

I’d like to start by stating that my dad, Harry, who passed away from cancer in 2011, was physically disabled for my whole life. I know more than most the difficulties of living with disability. My mum had to resign from her job as a nurse to care for him at home and as a result we were a family that relied on benefits. We lived in a council house in Ossett, West Yorkshire and lived absolutely on the breadline as my parents struggled but succeeded in giving my brother and myself a very happy upbringing. 

The above story is not designed to create sympathy for me. I’m aware that many families have stories that are much worse than my own. However the fact my dad was disabled places the fact that I have been labelled as discriminatory somewhat into context. 

I attended a sports day for my daughter. In the years prior to that years event I had joked with parents about not taking part in a parents race...claims back at me that I was scared of losing. All good banter. A few months prior to this a former referee, Mark Halsey, had written a newspaper article saying I was making mistakes because I was too fat. The full page and headline of ‘Blobby Bobby’ may seem funny to some but trust me being fat shamed in a national newspaper is not a nice feeling. 

As I sat in my car with my phone in hand a person walked past my car in front of me who had a walking impairment. The next part I am ashamed of. I took a 6 second film, I said nothing. I did this in Snapchat which is where I take all of my films that I intend to save to my phone. On the video I wrote, “F**k me I have a chance of winning the parents race this year.” Out of context I accept this reads shamefully. I accept that. However my intention was that the joke was aimed at myself. Had I have sent this to anyone on Snapchat then I would accept the decision that later came as a result. I didn’t do that though. I saved it to my phone. I sent it as a private text to somebody who I trusted, somebody who had been a huge part of my life for the previous 10 years and who I was on reasonable terms with. Somebody who understood the context of previous sports day comments and was aware of the fat shaming I had received. 
I regret taking the video, I regret sending that video and whilst it was a dark humoured joke it was just that. A joke. It was not intended to shame anyone, it was not intended to be seen by anyone other than the person I sent it privately to in a text message on my own personal phone (not a work phone). 

A few weeks later I had an argument with the same person regarding a family issue at which point I was threatened for the first time regarding this video with the comment “what would your boss say if it ended up on his desk”. 
At the time of this chat I was in Norway. I had driven there in order to collect my partners belongings as she was moving to England with me a few days later. On the way back to England a few days later,around Hamburg in fact, I received a phone call from my manager. An anonymous package had been received regarding me and could I meet with them before I went away on holiday (I was going to Greece for a week the week after). I agreed to meet in London on my way home, a meeting I was absolutely under the impression was a casual informal chat and hadn’t been told what I was actually there to discuss, just that it related to me and that it needed clearing up before I go away. I stayed in Holland that evening and drove straight to London the next morning. On entering the room in was clear that it was not the casual meeting I was led to believe I was going in for. HR were present along with a laptop on the table. My employers had received a USB and an anonymous letter saying I had sent this video. It was turned to face me and I was asked if I sent this. I admitted it immediately. I never once at any stage sought to deny or even to excuse it. I told them who I sent it to and that it was one private text message on my own phone and explained the context. 
Two weeks later, I attended a formal disciplinary hearing in which I produced a statement from that person who had received the text message stating that it would not be sent to press and that it was only intended to embarrass me. I felt I would be given a stern warning and some level of written warning maybe even a final written warning. This was echoed by the union representative who felt the case, whilst not showing me in the best light, was clearly a private joke with someone I trusted and given the fact my own dad was disabled and the fact that I produced evidence that I do work for disabled children’s charities in my own time would be taken into account. It wasn’t. I was dismissed with immediate effect for gross misconduct on grounds of discrimination. At that point my world fell apart. I was not offered the opportunity to attend discrimination training and be put on a warning, sonething that whilst I know I am 100% aware of what discrimination is, would show my employer that I would be willing to engage in this. It was denied. Whilst I absolutely understand the importance of an employer taking discrimination seriously as they did,  the decision to this day still stuns me. The same week as that a politician referred to Muslim women as letterboxes and made no apology. That man now leads the country as PM. Whilst my actions were badly misjudged, it was a joke. A private joke. Something that I am certain pretty much everyone reading this has done with friends/partners in the privacy of their relationships and with no expectation that that person would ever allow that to be used to end their professional career. 

I started refereeing at 16, my career was over at 32. I had my dream job, a well paid and incredibly enjoyable job that I loved every single minute of. The footballs and medals are now all I have to remember those years of dedication and hard work. I now have Twitter, I try to help young referees where possible, offering advice on their own blossoming refereeing careers. I stand proud on there to support the fight against racism and to support all within the LGBT community both inside and outside of football. I am far from a discriminatory person and yet that is what I am labelled as when you google my name. That hurts. The last 18 months have been mental torture for me and but for those close friends and family around me, as well as a strong partner, I dread to think what could have become. 

I feel now is the time to try to move forward. To put the past behind me and to rebuild both my reputation and my life as a whole. I still struggle to sleep, I still suffer mentally day to day to try to find the person I am now rather than clinging to the person I once was. 

Hopefully 2020 will be the start of the new me. I am not proud of that video and as I said I have to live with that for the rest of my life. In context, it was a 6 second video, a dark private joke that cost me my career. I will never be able to accept that the decision taken was either necessary nor was it proportionate to the act. I can’t change that now. The irony is that I have spent the last 18 months defending my former colleagues, being supportive of the company regarding the implementation of VAR and have sought to throw nobody under the bus, either the person I sent it to nor my former employer. I am proud that I have kept my dignity and integrity and hopefully I can move forward on and off the pitch and learn from my own mistakes, maybe I can use that to help others and make sure they don’t make the same mistake I did that lost me everything. 

Please don’t think bad of me. I’m a human being who made one mistake, one that many many people have done themselves and not lost everything for. Again, I have to pick those pieces up. 


Comments

  1. What a joke. Why didn’t the board give you the opportunity to make this right by having training and maybe even asking you to do championship games as a punishment? Over time earn yourself a place back in premier league? You were and are a great ref and I’m very annoyed by the board. Everyone makes mistakes. You are missed in England for sure. Hope Norway is good for you.

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  2. Fair play Bobby. Small mistake, unbelievable response. The game is desperate for decent referee's, especially I'm England.

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    1. How is that a joke. England is in desperate need of better ref's, as is the most of the world.

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  3. Typical from Mike Riley to throw someone else under a bus, whilst getting away with being the most incompetent man in english football

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  4. Feels like a very heavy handed decision. Over the top. I know profoundly disabled people who would laugh at that joke, and it was a private comment that someone has stitched you up with. If we police private conversations, we police thought. Too far. And I'm a massive Liberal snowflake...

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    1. I am disabled and recognise you were joking with your "friend".still, was a badmove.

      You have had rotten luck, been treated appallingly, had your life upende so you know how disabled feels

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    2. Not really the same is it...

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    3. Anyone who says theyve NEVER made a comment or tried to Joke about somehting that is frowned upon is a 100% lier. Weve all done it, even if on the spur of the moment and regretted it later. What i find more Vile, is the fact someone could stitch you up. Thats the person id be less likely to befriend.

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    4. The difference is not everybody is in the public eye

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  5. You made a mistake, yes; however, you should not have experienced all the things you have had to go through. You probably won't see this message but it seems to me you are a very decent human being who did something stupid that has cost you your career. Best of luck for 2020! I thought you were a top referee and this is from a Leeds man!

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  6. Utmost respect for writing this Bobby. Awful story but a compelling read. Good luck in 2020, all the best

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  7. Everyone deserves a second chance. The Norwegian media ha a bit more developed empathy than the English press. Always place for a ref in the Norwegian league

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    1. Nowhere near the wages tho. Be interesting to see how much of a dream job it is. Big enough to move to other countries? Footballers do it so why not refs.

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  8. Fair play to you for sharing this, heavy handed does not even begin to describe the treatment you've received and I hope you find some peace in the years to come

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  9. I know more than most how simple mistakes can lead to dramatic life changes. Your treatment is excessive in the least. The games I watched you referee were well managed and fair. You should come to Scotland and show our lot how to referee a game properly. Keep your chin up and hope life is good to you whatever you end up pursuing.

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  10. I am full of praise for you after reading this honest account of an issue that I believe was blown out of all proportion that resulted in the loss of a blossoming career when you had many more years to contribute. I wish you and your family well for the future and I do hope you can pick up the pieces and rebuild your life before it is too late.

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  11. Very sorry to read this. Respect to you for writing it for the way you have dealt with it all. I would say it is unbelievable what has happened to you, but I know that it is believable and you're right in saying similar things do go on with other people. I do hope things turn for the better and 2020 sees the start of good times for you. You are better off out of the referee scene. You have definitely come out of this with integrity (which the recipient of your picture/text cannot be said to have done) and deserved better treatment. Good luck to you and your family.

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  12. I bet the people in that room have made equal or worse mistakes than this. Terrible decision from them. So many double standards. Gutted for you Bobby, top referee. All the best for the future, leave those losers behind!!

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  13. Well done on getting the courage to write this Bobby. It seems like we're hung out to dry. Fight your corner and hopefully you'll get your life back. We have all made mistakes in our lives. Best of luck

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  14. Very very harsh the way you've been treated all the very best and UTT!

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  15. Horrendous decision from them. Hope 2020 is a better year for you and your family. You can hold your head up high and who know what opportunities lay around the corner.

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  16. Am sorry to read and respect your honesty . Sadly this is what our country has become now , a country where offence is looked for and found ,where none is meant . Anyone with an ounce of common sense , would have seen it for what it was .. a joke .....All the best for the future

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  17. Well, you are real. I sense the emotion. I have joked once or twice about the same group of people...(don't report me), but realize the mistakes and ask myself for mercy...(absurd). You deserved better though.

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  18. Very heavy handed response. You clearly made an error of judgment (like we ALL do at different times) and have been apologetic about it. Move on with your life; you don't have to keep apologising either.

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  19. It has taken a huge amount of courage to write this and publish. It seems balanced, fair and does not seek to damage others. I sincerely hope your former employers - and others in similar roles - read this and take the time to consider their own actions. They cannot change what happened to you but could learn from this when it comes to the next person who makes a mistake in judgement.

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  20. As someone who will have stood in a stand and shouted 'advice' to you on regular occasions, it's time to recognise your bravery in laying out the facts. It's very clear you have been harshly treated. Good luck for 2020, make it the year you leave this behind and find a positive way forward.

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  21. My goodness. I don't even know where to begin. When did we become such a harsh and vindictive country? I remember growing up with Only Fools as a kid and it would seem the sort of light-hearted banter that we took for granted in those days would see you absolutely raked through the mud in today's world. I hope 2020 is kinder to you Bobby.

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  22. It's a perfectly acceptable joke, the person in the video was not aware of it, and there was no one to offend. This is the horrible modern world we live in, the joke was on you. Loads of people do this stuff every day. Coming really,the PGMOL should concentrate on sorting out the horror shows we get every weekend ruining fans' enjoyment with incompetent decisions, try being an EFL fan, where the spotlight is not on the game, we have to suffer these arrogant prices every week, and they don't even explain themselves after the game. But the PGMOL would rather concentrate on trivia like this, and ruining a man's career, than addressing these issues.

    All the best to you for the future, you deserve jt.

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  23. This is beyond a joke. You explained the context but they didn't want to hear it. They wanted to prove they were god. I wonder if the verdict would have been the same if you were a BAME?

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  24. Amazing outcome for someone who made a simple mistake. No chance to recover learn and continue with the life you loved. It does sound as if you have turned a corner and I wish you a Happy Healthy New Year and a chance to fulfill your life how you wish in 2020.

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  25. Feel sorry for you, Bobby.

    Political correctness has gone way too far. As you say, this was a private matter, and the joke was on you.

    I wish you all the best for your future - and I don't say that to many referees!!

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  26. Really good and honest post Bobby. I hope 2020 is a great year for you.

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  27. You are missed in the EPL. Your honesty on the pitch is examplified when you were confronted with the video- you did not deny it.
    I would say that the punishment is terribly excessive especially as, in all fairness, it was meant as a joke and there are other ways of punishing bad jokes like this. Not destroying ones career. All the best mate. Political correctness is has gone beyond being on steriods.

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  28. Very sad story. I work with people with physical impairments and I doubt very much that they would be as offended as your employers were. I suspect they were much more worried about their reputation than the people who were the subject of your mistake

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  29. It would seem that the punishment far outweighed the crime. The people in power should be ashamed. You'd be welcome in L1 to take the place of some of the cowboys refereeing there. Good luck for your future.

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  30. Personally I think your actions in filming the person in the first place was disgusting and seems to be something society is happy to do with the introduction of smartphones..to then send it to someone is even more appalling whether the joke was about you or not. However it seems you were harshly treated by your employer but probably the greatest lesson you will learn is to trust no one

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    1. Feel no sympathy for the woman who cheats on his wife! Give him a wave from me

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  31. Having read your account, I can't decide what's worse; the knee-jerk response of your bosses or your acquaintance's decision to flag the private message with your bosses. World class sh*t housery at play from your old friend

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  32. Sad story, and wish you a happy and peaceful 2020.

    A wild guess, was the person who turned you in YOUR BROTHER, ANDREW, who is also a PL referee but had not been as successful as you?

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  33. Hope the new year /decade has a good start for you. Great bravery in writing your piece. Your human like the rest of us, and yes we all make inappropriate jokes with our mates, for a cheap laugh, that isn't a true reflection on our real outlook on life, all the best ��

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  34. Crazy PC culture of 2018 and now 2020.

    I actually think it was pretty funny, much worse had been said.

    Best of luck to you Bobby.

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  35. Absolutely crazy that it came to this, Bobby. They have got this completely wrong. Yes, it’s not great but it’s not gross misconduct in my book and I deal with a few of these. Are the same people who decided this doing VAR as well ? Sorry, couldn’t resist. Look after yourself from a Cardiff City supporter

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  36. Brilliant post chief. And you're spot on - there are a million people out there who have made a joke like that - or worse.

    In fact, people make a living out of it.

    Hope you find a new passion and enjoy it every day.

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  37. Good luck with the future. At least you are not involved with VAR. Happy new year

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  38. Feel sorry for you. Way out of proportion and a privately shared joke that honestly didn't hurt anyone. I hope the coming years will be better than the last.

    Jan
    Sweden

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  39. As the father of two disabled kids I can honestly say I feel sorry for you mate. I made shit jokes before I fully understood disability but to be honest I'm still very forgiving of others who do the same. Life is too short and evil people are far more malevolent.

    Hope you have a great future and even more happy you didn't bum a dog.

    Take care.

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  40. Sorry to hear that Bobby, the FA disciplinary process is the most corrupt process in the world. Small mistake but I agree that you should have had a warning and some 'training'.

    Good luck moving on, I hope that things improve for you :)

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  41. I have been on the the end of a hideous decision for forwarding a very light hearted joke email within a large organization and got demoted but others that had forwarded the same were left alone. You can pick yourself up ffrom this and you can achieve anything if you want.

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  42. Fair play Bobby, racist shit can be taken from players and fans , you deserved a chance to redeem yourself. Most people are guilty of making those silly jokes

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  43. Not forgetting you're a liar and cheated on your wife with. ... eerr hello! Shame on you.

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  44. Good on you man. So many people have made private / dark jokes that seem awful out of context.

    Best of luck.

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  45. I think it's safe to say that pretty much everyone thinks that Mike Riley is a complete cockwomble.... An ego maniac who has no regard for the consequences of his ridiculous actions. Best of luck to you. Hopefully Riley will get the boot and you will find a way back in

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  46. Wow.. so incredibly disapointed to read this Bobby and the lack of empathy from those making the big decisions. Needless to say it is not surprising though after watching the shambles around VAR this season. I know what it feels like to lose 2 football league careers myself through injury (playing and officiating), so can only imagine your struggle to comprehend what has happened to you and your career since they hung you out to dry.
    I wish you only the very best going into 2020 and wholeheartedly congratulate you on your honesty.

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  47. Very well written. I solute your honesty and I hope you can get a second chance at the career you love.

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  48. I started to read this thinking "oh here we go, another excuse", but you have made me eat my words, Bobby.

    Sorry you were treated the way you were by the media and the people in this country. It takes a man to be honest and fess up to saying/doing something stupid - and as you say, in a private situation with a trusted friend, we have ALL done it, whether people admit it or not.

    Glad you are in a more positive place now, onward and upward only from here.

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  49. Absolutely shocking decision, feel for you massively. There are comedians who say 1000x worse than you and get paid in the hundreds of thousands for the privilege. It was a dark joke, but in the context nowhere near bad enough for a sacking. Hundreds of thousands of people say worse every day in passing, I know I've said worse jokes. Feel awful for you, and I'm honestly fuming on your behalf

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  50. Why does this story not surprise me. There are so many industries where the management are so insecure and so incompetent that they introduce anally retentive polices and make, snap, knee jerk decisions because they wouldn't know what good looked like if it slapped them in the face.
    Just look at the absolute hash the football authorities are making of VAR in the premier league. Bobby you have fallen victim to that level of incompetence...to the job worths who have no earthly idea how to lead. The people that made that decision should be completely ashamed of themselves. I always say...what goes around comes around, watch this space...best of luck and well done for having the courage to explain exactly what happened.

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  51. Who was the rat? Someone has suggested a brother.
    It seems strange that someone you felt you could trust with the joke would report it, and, moreover, not attempt to back you up when realising it was all going too far.

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  52. The Nation's dogs breathe a collective sigh of relief.

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  53. You deserve a second chance Bobby. Good luck to you in the future and hope to see you reffing somewhere

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  54. Hindsight is a great thing.You fucked up big time but at least have the balls to bare all.Move on with your life.You get one shot at it,don't let the past eat you up,enjoy and live the rest of it.

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  55. Bobby, this is a brave piece to write take a look at my story on @5liverugby on Twitter and get in touch through them, we have lots in common

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  56. Same old.fa ruined your career now.ruinomg the game with var bollocks I think it was a mistake and you should.ha e a second chance come on fa grow a pair

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  57. Wow, I feel for you. Actually thought it was something serious or of nefarious means. This is nothing absolutely nothing. The FA threw you under the bus over nothing. I must say that the FA are weak cowardly buffons in truth. I was a level 4 ref many years ago. Found the county and national FA horrendous. An old boys clique that ruin you over nothing. I was appointed to a County Cup final. I made a joke to the assessor that these were the cleanest my boots had ever been. Well that tongue in cheek light hearted joke put an end to my progression. The FA really are a cowardly, spineless bunch of incomptents. You received no support and surprised you didn't have a full on breakdown. You were thrown under the bus over nothing. Move on and think would you want to work for someone that would treat you so disgracefully. I will say one thing. You should have put your version out straight away. Vultures the lot of them.

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  58. It's sad that this country, and the west in general, has become so unforgiving and determined to view things in the worst possible light.

    Good luck in the future, Bobby.

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  59. As a disabled person, I understand where you were coming from and honestly have no problem with it. It was not done out of malice and shouldnt be taken as such. Heck, if youd said that to me while I was in my chair, Id have come back with a response and taken it in the spirit it was said. I know you wouldnt have won anyway as being a ref, youd have never been able to see the finish line! ;) I hope you are given the chance to return to the profession you love.

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  60. just keep on going mate. life is very unfair.

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  61. Sad story and well written. What has the world come to. You're right that 99% of people could find something they've said or done that was inappropriate but without such consequence. Hope 2020 brings positivity for you.

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  62. Tragic sequence. You were treated shamefully.

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  63. Very sad someone's profession can be destroyed by a private joke. Shame on your trusted pal and the British media at it's best.

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  64. We live in a very judgemental world..I fear to even write anything because 10 years from now I can get canned for my reply. In future never ever send a video to even your mother, you never know how jealous people are of your achievements and want to bring you down..

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  65. That's an extremely disproportionate and irresponsible response from your employer.

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  66. You did a bad thing. If you weren't caught, you'd probably still have gone on with that same discriminatory mentality but it would seem the experience has humbled you greatly and you've learnt from it. None of us are perfect to judge you for it but it's great to see you sharing your experience.

    Obviously there are two sides to every story but I fail to see how the PGMOL come out of this without fault given how draconian they were with a decision that essentially ended a man's career for a misdemeanour. Maybe a temporary ban and some mandatory diversity training would have been more fitting.

    The treatment you've had from others is pretty sick if you ask me. I'm sure those psuedo "journalists" that spew their bile in that toilet paper rag "The Sun" and the online "cancel culture" trolls made your life hell when this all started happening. You've even got a few on here, being high and mighty, talking about your personal relationships like they have any authority to judge you. The English media and the polarised minds it has warped are a cancer on modern society.


    I hope you are able to put this all in the past and move on. At 34, you've so much of your life ahead of you. I wish you well in making the best of the rest of it.

    Happy New Year

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  67. Umm..you made a mistake (who hasn't?) and sent something to a 'friend'. The person who should be ashamed is your friend. (Note:I don't follow football, I have no clue who you are...but this is just wrong)

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  68. A brave and clearly good human being, who made a mistake. Upmost respect for having the character to write this. Forgive yourself, you’re the only person who can truly hold yourself back.

    All the best.

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  69. Brother Bobby, your story only strengthens my view that the world has gone really crazy this last decade. Your so called mistake isn't even a mistake in my eyes given the context. Stop beating yourself down for that! It's not you that's the problem. Show your middle finger to this world and just enjoy your life from here on. Happy new year!

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  70. Bobby has supported my charity golf day for Martin House Children’s Hospice since my son passed away in 2012, Martin House look after children with all kinds of disabilities..
    Bobby is welcome to attend any of our events in the future as he has always supported my events in the past

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  71. You are 100% correct. Most people have made an inappropriate joke at some point. Should it determine a career, hell no. Good luck and well done for being so honest. Good luck in the 20s

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  72. While I'm no fan of referees, you come across as a genuine human being.
    Good luck for the future Bobby.

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  73. The punishment was completely disproportional to the crime Bobby, strength to you

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  74. I guess there will be no comedians moonlighting as referees in the future, they take the piss out of everything. Jokes are just that and it should have been looked at in the context it was in. Silly decision

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  75. Has anyone seen this cunt referee? Ffs?

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  76. Feel sorry for you. Society judges it's evil only with an outward lens. The fact that disability has burdened your family only demonstrates your deeper understanding. The Italian FA puts forth anti racist monkeys with clearly no empathy yet jest is misplaced and ruins a career.

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  77. As a father and husband of disabled members of my family, who all like to engage in 'dark humour' I think it's disgusting how you've been treated. Your employers and your (I presume ex) friend really need to take a good hard look at themselves. Shame on them

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  78. What a ridiculous outcome from a simple bit of humour!! Sorry to hear of your struggles over the past 18 months, your employers should be ashamed of themselves, clearly covering their own backs should the video have gone to the press and put them in a bad light for not sanctioning you. Sums up today's world sadly, all the best Bobby

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  79. Bobby

    Thank you for sharing your story, only a truly great person admits their mistakes and learns from them. What an amazing decision you made not to shame the person who blackmailed you with the video, and then write this piece. Inspiring. (I don’t agree that “everyone tells offensive jokes”, equally I do agree your “offence” was very minor because it was shared with one person via private means)

    The personal cost to you has been horrendous. I hope you are getting support for the impact on your mental health.

    PGMOL - I am no lawyer but this sounds like a case of “wrongful dismissal” - did you take Legal advice ? It is illegal to sack people without any appeal process or right to representation.

    The worst part of the story as an outsider is the way lies spread through social media and the press. That you have accepted this and moved on again is to your immense credit - PL football players and rick stars can afford High Court injunctions to stop the press revealing their indiscretion, a hard working guy from Otley cannot defend himself against abuse and lies (I am sure you are the victim of many illegal acts, frankly your blog is a better response than trying to fight in court against the defamation you have suffered)

    Stay strong. I hope PGMOL has the courage and integrity to re-instate you or you find a career refereeing in another country. Most of all I wish you a peaceful year ahead after what can only have been terrible chapter of your life.

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  80. Horrid story. I'm sorry to read this tragic destruction of a secure professional & private life. Feel for you & your partner. Whoever forwarded that snapchat vid is clearly a childishly immature vindictive person with serious issues.

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  81. Bobby,
    I deeply regret what happened to you and your career. I do not believe this is a case for dismissal or any equally harsh punishment. I do hope that key people in the FA will take note of this letter and understand the context. I with you a happy 2020 and hope that this year will bring you happiness, success and most of all understanding and forgiveness.
    You have done your job as good as anyone and I with to see you in the Prem again soon.
    Best of everything to you and your family!

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  82. A very honest and genuine statement, as a football fan it is disappointing to see a referee of your standard forced to quit in his prime.

    Shame on the FA, and shame on your 'friend' who threw you under the bus... hopefully karma catches up with them this year!

    All the best for 2020, hope this year is a good one for you.

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  83. Bobby.
    Not that it matters a jot but I'm now ashamed of my prejudices, because you've been man enough ( sexist) to tell it how it is. I'm disabled, I've told jokes, I don't see myself as racist, I've told very wicked racist jokes. Wit is clever and forgivable. I hear on my radio a racist joke about Germans having no sense of humour, bombarded to whatever their audience figure is, but no one bothers.
    Being a football fan I wish you would throw your previous employers under a bus, because I think there is a truth to come out there.
    Personally I wish you well, peace and the success in your life that your honesty deserves.

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  84. Welcome to the wonderful world we live in. You get to work a forty hour week, pay your taxes, doff your cap to inept governments whose ranks are swollen with money grabbing plebs and if that wasn't bad enough, you now get told what to think and when to think it. Context is ignored, humour obsolete, freedom of speech is a fallacy and privacy nonexistent.


    As someone once sang - "Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me."

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    1. And to think, Boris Johnson got sacked by the Times a matter of months after being hired for lying in an article he wrote. He was sack again from his position as shadow arts minister for refusing to tell the truth about an affair he'd be having but somehow this bungling moron ended up as PM. Also, I can't imagine anything this idiot writes is in anyway entertaining, especially, as I'm willing to wager, he write exclusively in crayon. That presumption alone makes the fact he's in charge even more laughable.

      I'll let that sink in a moment before bringing you back to the fact a man who refereed a simple game of football got sacked for a private joke. WTF indeed.

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  85. If this is a true and accurate account , you were very harshly judged. I hope life in 2020 is kinder to you.

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  86. BJ is untouchable.
    Unfortunately modern day HR and management would have been high up in a certain 1930s German company

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  87. The most contradictory thing about this is that you hear and see far worse things than this on The Last Leg every week and not exclusively by those with disabilities. I have never understood how and why dark humour is something that if you are paid to make it is perfectly acceptable while if an 'amateur' makes just one not dissimilar, (even if ultimately unwise), similar dark joke on the spur of the moment it is deemed enough to not only class you as dispicable apparently but lose you your career.

    Where is the balance between Frankie Boyle making appallingly biggoted 'jokes' against the disabled for profit and promotion of his career, when something said of a fraction of the offence by someone else who doesn't do it for a living and doesn't exploit it for big profit or even make it publicly in an attempt to humiliate others, is banished in shame. The hypocricy is beyond belief, especially when much of that audience who laugh at Boyle and others (many feeling but ignoring their guilt in so doing, indeed the contradiction ironically forms part of the appeal) are the very same as those who judge others so minutely in a different context. It's like the professional 'bubble' environment gives them a free pass to laugh at such things when otherwise they never would do so. They never look at themselves in the mirror for their hypocricy, so unlike you yourself, who clearly have had to do so. Humanity truly is mis-named at times.

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  88. This is a very interesting story of how refereeing within the football pyramid works (or doesn't). Your situation stinks of the prejudiced influence that is endemic in today's society. I feel for you.

    Can you inform the public the real reasons that we have lost so many influential match day officials? Referees such as Clatenberg and the Howard Webb are the subjects of social media speculation and should be able to relate their own stories..........if they have nothing to hide!

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  89. You have been treated appallingly by a bureaucratic and entirely self-serving institution. To say you have been let down is a huge understatement.

    I would certainly look hard at your legal position, as it looks like you have a strong case for unfair or wrongful dismissal. You sent a private message to a single individual on a personal phone, and I fail to see how this constitutes gross misconduct in the workplace!

    It is also a very sad indictment of the society within which we live, that such an obvious (and private) joke can be taken out of context and manipulated in such an unforgivable way.

    I realise that this will be cold comfort to you, but please be assured that this situation paints the PGMOL in the worst possible light in the eyes of any right-thinking person.

    They come out of this much worse than yourself from a reputational perspective. They need to hand their heads in shame.

    I would urge the Premier League, the EFL and the FA review and heavily sanction the PGMOL management team for what is a borderline illegal blunder.

    I wish you all the best for the future. It sounds as though you have moved through this in an admirable way, and I'm convinced that one day on the near future you will look back on this in a philosophical way.

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  90. I worked with Bobby at cathedral school in wakefield back in the 2000s. He was always a top lad who conducted himself with honesty and integrity. I was incredibly proud of the career he forged through hard work and dedication and proud to have called him a friend. I am also incredibly proud of how he has faced up to his mistake by writing this honest assessment and sharing his feelings. I hope better times lie ahead for you Bobby I'm sure those that know you well are still proud of the person you are.

    Good luck for 2020
    Carl (geordie maths teacher)

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  91. So many people act like they've never put a foot wrong or offended anybody when the truth is we all have at some time or another ,severe reprimand would have been more fitting in my opinion. Good luck with your future whatever it brings .

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  92. Punishment did not fit the crime. I hope you can move on and become a success again.

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  93. Really sorry to read this Bobby. I met you once about two years ago at Swansea. I remember thinking how great you were refereeing at the time and what a genuine chap you are. Thank you for being so candid. I wish you the very best for the future. If you are settling in Norway then you will love it. A fantastic country.

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  94. Our crazy country portrayed perfectly in the responses to your blog. Hundreds supporting you, one or two being offended. Yet the one or two being offended have all the power. The world (or our country at least) has truly gone mad.

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  95. You were one of the best refs and I was wondering where you went! Very harsh treatment in this ultra-pc world...

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  96. It is a sad indictment of the times that you have had to explain every single little detail of this story to cover your own back. One joke should not ruin anyone's career. Society has gone mad. I hope you find a new career and wish you every success with it.

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  97. What did you expect in this world of PC hand wringing... trial by media is a joke....stand tall knowing your not the same as those who judge you..have a great 2020

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  98. Absolutely disgusting behaviour of your 'friend' and employer, I wonder if you have a case for unfair dismissal? Though I can't image that would be a smooth or easy ride and may not be worth the risk \ stress!!!

    I hope that two-faced, slimy, blackmailing son of a bitch who sent that on is known for what he is to all who know him, he deserves nothing less, what a see you next Tuesday.

    I wish you luck going forward and hope for your own sanity you can go back to being the w****er in the black! ;) (We love you really, couldn't have our beautiful game without our ref's)

    But serious I do hope you find you way back into the game, can you go abroad and ref? Surely you still have your credentials?!

    Maybe you can go play golf in Spain and get paid 600k a week for it, ask for a guy named Gareth at some little known club called Real something he's done it, sure you'll know someone with his phone number! Maybe he can come back to Spurs in return and you can take his golfing role whats your Handicap? (I would insert a joke about blind ref's here but I quite like my job) :)

    Imaging getting sacked for a discriminatory post in response to an article covering just that, ouch, no thanks.

    HNY All, Especially Bobby and Family!

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  99. Hey,

    Everyone makes a mistake...

    I hope that you are back on your feet, and I wish you the best for the future.

    We all just need to move on....

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  100. Thank you Bobby for the honesty and I believe you are no less human than any of the rest of us. I wish you the very best for 2020 and that you can get your life back on track and continue giving to the community as you have!

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  101. I feel compelled to post a comment here lauding your post about this - you obviously know it was a stupid joke to make but to me it seems like it was just that and you seem like a good person whose actions speak more loudly to your views on disability or disabled people than one little joke should. I'm upset for you reading this and I hope you are able to feel better mentally in 2020, if this story ever comes up in conversation with my friends I;ll be sure to direct them to this post

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  102. I also feel compelled to make a comment. Why is somebody like ‘lost voice guy’ whose whole set is based around mockery off disabled people voted the winner of Britain’s got Talent and it’s accepted as being funny and ‘allowed’ but you are discriminated against for doing something in private.

    This is very unfair. I am sure typing your thoughts will help you with closure and a step towards improving your mental health. The world is going slowly politically correct insane!

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  103. A very poignant reveal Bobby. I'm certain we have all made similar comments we later regret.
    l wish you well going forward and am happy to class you as a friend.

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  104. Life is shit bobby.Youve been stitched up appallingly.I dont think your bad for that.I.m still proud to think that even in the tyniest of ways i helped your career.We did many games together.Still proud to know you.

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  105. That sounds very unfair, sorry that happened to you. I will say that I've had a back and forth with you on Twitter and found you quite belligerent. Maybe that's because you were having a bad time with all of this but coupled with being overweight, they may have been looking for an excuse to get rid of you.

    Any chance of a tribunal? It seems completely out of their jurisdiction if you send a private message to a family member.

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  106. Sorry to read that, but at least your in the best country in the world now ��

    If all the jokes I had made to my friends had been made public without context then I would have been probably been called the worst person in history or something.

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  107. The person who stitched you up did something worse than what you did. PC gone crazy and definitely unfair dismissal. Don't lie down to it Bobby, fight for your place that you have worked so many years to get to where you were.

    Yes it was an error of judgement but that was all it was.

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  108. Who was this rat who gave them the usb stick. Name and shame the rat let him get a taste of what you have.

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  109. An incredibly harsh punishment for what was, in the wider scheme of things, an unfortunate error of taste and judgement but hardly abusing a disabled person.

    I hope your former 'friend' is proud of himself.

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  112. Bobby, massive respect for you telling your story, it's a risk you've gotta weigh up as it brings more attention to the incident but you have done NOTHING wrong... I guarantee any of the people who have passed judgement on you have made similar jokes or potentially have done MUCH worse throughout their lives but it just hasn't come back to bite them.

    The world we live in is an absolute joke with social justice warriors putting the pressure on careers to be ended and lives to be ruined for what is a HARMLESS joke... its DISGUSTING. Organisations need to grow a backbone and not give into the perceived 'pressure' they are under to end someones career. Just because they see the virtue signalling "I'm offended" brigade out in force on Twitter, that is NOT representative of society's perception of what has happened. There isn't an ounce of malice in that joke and anyone with a brain can see that.

    The scary thing is, in the current climate, this could happen to ANY of us, especially to those with success.

    I'm going to write to PGMOL about this and I think everyone here should as well!

    We should start a petition to get Bobby re-instated too!

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  113. Bobby,they obviously were covering their own backs in case this got out later. What you did was banter with a "friend"
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    Although reading the recent nonsense published on this thread which has no bearing on the original story (and hardly any link with common sense), I still have my doubts.

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  144. How I Got My Ex Husband Back..Am so excited to share my testimony of a real spell caster who brought my husband back to me. My husband and I have been married for about 6 years now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. 3 months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him and a few weeks later I found out that my husband is seeing someone else. He started coming home late from work, he hardly care about me or the kids anymore, Sometimes he goes out and doesn't even come back home for about 2-3 days. I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail. I became very worried and needed help. As I was browsing through the internet one day, I came across a website that suggested that Dr.Wealthy can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and and told him my problems and he told me what to do and i did it and he did a spell for me. 48 hours later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my family are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr.Wealthy Powerful Love Spell that really works. If you have any problem contact him and i guarantee you that he will help you. He will not disappoint you. Email him at: wealthylovespell@gmail.com. or whatsapp him on: +2348105150446

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  148. I honestly don’t know what I would have done without Lord SAN. Even as a manager at my place of work, My daily expenses is more than my in-come therefore subjecting my and my kids to hunger, and sometimes without internet and light went off. I had no choice but to come to this money temple where LORD SAN did a money ritual spell that has turned me to the richest woman in my family linage. I just bought another house for my first daughter as her marriage gift. I have stopped working over 5 months ago since I started getting money from this money spell LORD SAN did for me. I get bundles of dollars twice a week. I do not need my husband anymore he can go to hell with his child support that he never pays.contact email moneytemple@outlook.com You can also Call/Whats App:+447482854279
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  149. I was married for five years with out any child, because of this my husband start acting very strange at home, coming home late and not spending time with me any more. So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family. my sister in law told me about Dr Ojoka from the Internet, how he has helped people with this similar problem(Getting Pregnant) that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him. he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband came back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (boys) we are happy with ourselves. Thanks to Benson for saving my relationship and Helping me conceive and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested,contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address his: drojokaspelltemple@gmail.com or Whats App +2348144172934
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  150. I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blog I visit for relationship and dating counseling problems because i had been having serious issues with my boyfriend and we had been dating for six months,he just suddenly changed,he was returning my calls,he started cheating,he was hurting me in so many ways i never thought possible and I just thought I should try it maybe out of desperation of some sort ..and I contacted them..At first everything felt dreamy and unbelievable,their consultations and solution was a little bit easy and strange and I was scared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of spell casters and i never really believed in magic..I played along with a little hope and faith and I was sent some few stuffs after everything and it worked like a miracle,everything went to a while new direction,I guess it was all good faith that made me read That particular post that faithful day..I hope they could help other people too like they did a little and I got everything I wanted and wished for my husband,my family and my life back their address is; Supernaturalspell1@gmail.com  Call him or add him on whatsapp via: +2348124644470 PRIEST WISDOM BLOG PAGE: https://supernaturalspell21.blogspot.com/

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  151. I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blog I visit for relationship and dating counseling problems because i had been having serious issues with my boyfriend and we had been dating for six months,he just suddenly changed,he was returning my calls,he started cheating,he was hurting me in so many ways i never thought possible and I just thought I should try it maybe out of desperation of some sort ..and I contacted them..At first everything felt dreamy and unbelievable,their consultations and solution was a little bit easy and strange and I was scared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of spell casters and i never really believed in magic..I played along with a little hope and faith and I was sent some few stuffs after everything and it worked like a miracle,everything went to a while new direction,I guess it was all good faith that made me read That particular post that faithful day..I hope they could help other people too like they did a little and I got everything I wanted and wished for my husband,my family and my life back their address is; Supernaturalspell1@gmail.com  Call him or add him on whatsapp via: +2348124644470 PRIEST WISDOM BLOG PAGE: https://supernaturalspell21.blogspot.com/

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  152. Hello my name is Jenna i want to share my amazing experience with the greatest spell caster Priest Ade my husband was cheating on me and when i found out we had a fight which lead to him filling for a divorce i cried and fell sick when i was searching about love quotes online i saw people talking about him and his great work whose case was similar to mine they left his contact info i contacted him and he told me not to worry that after 24hrs he will cancel the divorce and be back to me after i did everything he asked me to do to my greatest surprise the next day evening it was my husband he knelt down begging me to accept him back,thank you once again Priest Ade you are indeed a blessing to me he can also help you contact ancientspiritspellcast@yahoo.com or ancientspiritspellcast@gmail.com 
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  153. Hello my name is Jenna i want to share my amazing experience with the greatest spell caster Priest Ade my husband was cheating on me and when i found out we had a fight which lead to him filling for a divorce i cried and fell sick when i was searching about love quotes online i saw people talking about him and his great work whose case was similar to mine they left his contact info i contacted him and he told me not to worry that after 24hrs he will cancel the divorce and be back to me after i did everything he asked me to do to my greatest surprise the next day evening it was my husband he knelt down begging me to accept him back,thank you once again Priest Ade you are indeed a blessing to me he can also help you contact ancientspiritspellcast@yahoo.com or ancientspiritspellcast@gmail.com 
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  154. How I Got My Ex Husband Back..Am so excited to share my testimony of a real spell caster who brought my husband back to me. My husband and I have been married for about 6 years now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. 3 months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him and a few weeks later I found out that my husband is seeing someone else. He started coming home late from work, he hardly care about me or the kids anymore, Sometimes he goes out and doesn't even come back home for about 2-3 days. I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail. I became very worried and needed help. As I was browsing through the internet one day, I came across a website that suggested that Dr.Wealthy can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and and told him my problems and he told me what to do and i did it and he did a spell for me. 48 hours later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my family are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr.Wealthy Powerful Love Spell that really works. If you have any problem contact him and i guarantee you that he will help you. He will not disappoint you. Email him at: wealthylovespell@gmail.com. or whatsapp him on: +2348105150446

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  156. I want to take this opportunity to thank Dr. Akhere. for helping me get my lover back after he left me a 6 months ago. I sent friends and my brothers to beg for me, but he refused to let it all end between us, but when I met Dr. Akhere. he told me to relax that everything will be fine and really after just two days i recovered my man. thank you very much Dr. Akhere. here is the e-mail of this great man, Akheretemple@yahoo.com if you need his help, you can contact on whatsapp: +233235887825

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  157. I'm Mrs. Dulce Beverly from the United States, I want to share a testimony of my life for each one. I was married to my husband Anderson, I love him so much that we have been married for seven years with two children. When he went on vacation to France, he referred to a woman named Peggy, he told me that he is no longer interested in our marriage. I was so confused and looking for help, I don't know what to do until I met my friend Cassie, and I told her my problem. She told me not to worry about her having a similar problem before and introduce me to a man named Dr. IYAYA, who cast a spell on her ex boyfriend and brought it back to her after 3 days. Mary asks me to communicate with the Dr. IYAYA. I contacted him to help me bring my husband back and he asks me not to worry that the gods of his ancestors will fight for me. He told me that after three days he would join me and my husband together. After three days my husband called me and told me that he was looking for things with me again, he surprised me when I saw him and he started crying for forgiveness. Right now I am the happiest woman in the world for what this great spell caster and a great doctor has done for me and my husband, you can contact his email: (doctoriyaya@gmail.com). Or whatsapp .. him on this number . {+2347032756397} his Website, link in??v
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  158. How I Got My Ex Husband Back..Am so excited to share my testimony of a real spell caster who brought my husband back to me. My husband and I have been married for about 6 years now. We were happily married with two kids, a boy and a girl. 3 months ago, I started to notice some strange behavior from him and a few weeks later I found out that my husband is seeing someone else. He started coming home late from work, he hardly care about me or the kids anymore, Sometimes he goes out and doesn't even come back home for about 2-3 days. I did all I could to rectify this problem but all to no avail. I became very worried and needed help. As I was browsing through the internet one day, I came across a website that suggested that Dr.Wealthy can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and and told him my problems and he told me what to do and i did it and he did a spell for me. 48 hours later, my husband came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my family are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr.Wealthy Powerful Love Spell that really works. If you have any problem contact him and i guarantee you that he will help you. He will not disappoint you. Email him at: wealthylovespell@gmail.com. or whatsapp him on: +2348105150446

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  159. I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blog I visit for relationship and dating counseling problems because i had been having serious issues with my boyfriend and we had been dating for six months,he just suddenly changed,he was returning my calls,he started cheating,he was hurting me in so many ways i never thought possible and I just thought I should try it maybe out of desperation of some sort ..and I contacted them..At first everything felt dreamy and unbelievable,their consultations and solution was a little bit easy and strange and I was scared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of spell casters and i never really believed in magic..I played along with a little hope and faith and I was sent some few stuffs after everything and it worked like a miracle,everything went to a while new direction,I guess it was all good faith that made me read That particular post that faithful day..I hope they could help other people too like they did a little and I got everything I wanted and wished for my husband,my family and my life back their address is; Supernaturalspell1@gmail.com  Call him or add him on whatsapp via: +2348124644470 PRIEST WISDOM BLOG PAGE: https://supernaturalspell21.blogspot.com/

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  160. I recently saw a testimony about a spell caster of some sort in a blog I visit for relationship and dating counseling problems because i had been having serious issues with my boyfriend and we had been dating for six months,he just suddenly changed,he was returning my calls,he started cheating,he was hurting me in so many ways i never thought possible and I just thought I should try it maybe out of desperation of some sort ..and I contacted them..At first everything felt dreamy and unbelievable,their consultations and solution was a little bit easy and strange and I was scared a little cos I heard read and heard lots of stories of spell casters and i never really believed in magic..I played along with a little hope and faith and I was sent some few stuffs after everything and it worked like a miracle,everything went to a while new direction,I guess it was all good faith that made me read That particular post that faithful day..I hope they could help other people too like they did a little and I got everything I wanted and wished for my husband,my family and my life back their address is; Supernaturalspell1@gmail.com  Call him or add him on whatsapp via: +2348124644470 PRIEST WISDOM BLOG PAGE: https://supernaturalspell21.blogspot.com/

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  161. My husband left and was in the far country for many months. He came home for a time, telling me it was just for the kids, that he still felt nothing for me when he told me this statement i cried . Although I still held on what,Priest wisdom told me all day every day, he left again. Two weeks ago I signed divorce papers and signed for an apartment. BUT GOD! One night I had a knock at my door. My suddenly happened! My husband came home! Last night he told me he loved me. We still have work to do but all thanks to priest wisdom he is so faithful. I am in deed greatful please contact priest wisdom today for any kind of help..
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  162. My husband left and was in the far country for many months. He came home for a time, telling me it was just for the kids, that he still felt nothing for me when he told me this statement i cried . Although I still held on what,Priest wisdom told me all day every day, he left again. Two weeks ago I signed divorce papers and signed for an apartment. BUT GOD! One night I had a knock at my door. My suddenly happened! My husband came home! Last night he told me he loved me. We still have work to do but all thanks to priest wisdom he is so faithful. I am in deed greatful please contact priest wisdom today for any kind of help..
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    BLOG: https://supernaturalspell21.blogspot.com/ 

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